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Thursday, 2 August 2012

10 dumb things Women do all the time


1. Talking gibberish about his friends

Oh this is a big one, just like when talking about his family you tread in the No-Shit-Zone, similarly when you are talking about his friends, keep it mind that it is the Seriously-no-shit-zone! So yes, if you say random bull about his friends, the only people whom he values above you perhaps (don’t get green it is always true, sadly) then do not expect your value to rise any higher. A five month old baby could do this particular math so you might as well learn too!

2. Unilateral refusals to do things

Word to the wise, if you keep on refusing little pleasures to your guy (like you know what, if you know what I mean that is), or watching the ball game with him sometimes, or doing some stuff with his family or his guys, lock it in your mind that eventually he would find someone to do all of this stuff with and then you really can’t blame him can you! So stop being such a stuck up and do a little compromising on your part too!

3. Waiting for the big disrespect

Surprisingly, I find so many women with the same cry of “How could he do this to me?” I have often observed, after critically analyzing all the events leading to this scenario, that your sorry-a** excuse of a person has actually given them so much slack in the past that when they pull a bigger stunt, one that really pisses you off, it is too late to pull back and then you go all “Oh how mean of him, how could he do this?” You really can’t see how they could do this girls, they do it with your very own permission of course, so take action and do not take the crap!

4. Blaming the other woman

Assuming that your guy did cheat you, let me tell you this one little fact. Do not make the dumbest mistake that women normally make of calling the other women up, using swear words at her, and calling her name. Because she does not know you and quite honestly, in the same capacity, she gives a shit to your whole tantrum. If, however, it is your friend or relative that your guy cheated you with, you have my blessing to give her an ear full!

5. Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde

Nearly everyone knows that whenever you are in the beginning of a new relationship, everything is all honey and dew and everyone is very pleasant to one another. Both the sides put on their best possible behavior. It is when the relationship starts getting a little old that the real vibes show. Much as I would hate to admit, but it is generally the women that change more. And let me tell you all that if you keep switching between Miss Jekyll to Miss Hyde in a matter of hours, which basically means going from the all appreciative girlfriend to a psych biatch and back over, do not be surprised when he turns to Mr Absent instead of Mr Attentive! What more can you expect anyway!

6. Sending personal pictures

Most if the girls do not know that men, as a general rule, show the pictures of their girls to their friends (male friends and female friends). So unless you are totally at home with the entire social circle of your guy, do not send him any of your personal (if you know what I mean, which I am pretty sure you do) pictures. I would not even suggest getting yourself taped with him because with the tape, it is all good till its good, but when the relationship goes flat, you may find yourself the object of a lot of adult viewers desire (again, IF you know what I mean).

7. Saying you’re cool when you’re not

When you being the relationship, be very clear what you like, and what will make you freak out. Because ladies, it is so not cool to let him know that you have no issues with him seeing other woman, or holding another girls hands, or talking to another girl, or the fact that he has children but when it comes to actually witnessing some of the aforementioned action, you lose it all together and freak out! So whatever it is that you have reservations against, just bring them out in the open to save yourself the utter humiliation of a break down later!

8. Snooping the wrong way

This is common in most of the girls that when ever they spot the tiniest bit of lying or something seems fishy, they go out snooping. Looking into their guys stuff when ever he is not aware, checking through his phone messages to spot the cheat! Well kudos to that, no issues! The issue arises when they actually do spot philandery, confront the guy, and then expect an apology, Any self-respecting would turn the table back onto you in such a case because you suspected him to begin with, and then you went snooping around his stuff. So either make a cheetah like move and make him confess the mistake, or just do the snooping bit and not the confronting bit!

9. Clinging to the notion that ‘actions speak louder than words’.

So it happens in most of the relationships that men make it clear in the beginning that they are not looking for a relationship. Once they have that side cleared and their conscience all wiped clean, they go ahead and do all of those acts that might indicate them warming up to the idea of a relationship. Women, being the dumb little folk that they are, tend to ignore the initial red flag and assume that Oh! my man has changed! Well this is to bring to your notice that men never change. Until and unless a man says that he has changed his mind and is looking for a relationship, he certainly is not looking for one so please save yourselves the embarrassment!

10. Telling men that we dreamed about you

So ladies, here is the thing. This particular line is now so old and shabby and no one even believes it any more. So even if you did see your guy in one f your dreams (which you eventually will if you do not stop obsessing) than trust me you need not bore him with the details because he is certainly going to think that you are making it all up. Like they say that when you say in an interview that you want to do good for the company, it seems fake because it is a line that has been used a lot and therefore sounds cheesy. So if you want to talk to them, just go ahead and talk like they do! Women make such excuses and make themselves look like complete fools.










10 dumb things Women do all the time

Wednesday, 11 July 2012

Things not to say on a date.


Are you going for a date? All set? Hey I just don't mean the perfect makeup and hairs, there's lot more than this when you are going for your first date. You need to impress your boyfriend and for this you have to hold your tongue. May be you feel the conversation was interesting but realize the reality when the handsome hunk didn't call you back after the first date.

Let's check out what you should not "say" in your first date:
• Always keep in mind it's just you and "he" so don't discuss about least important stuffs like pets. May be he likes pet but of course will never want to discuss them on a date. One of my friends shared his experience: "My first girlfriend was obsessed with her dog. Whenever we met at her place, I had to bear with all the drooling and cajoling. Fearing she might feel hurt, once I requested her to lock her dog inside a room, to which she freaked out. I walked off and never called her again." Do you want your boyfriend should think in the same way?
• Cribbing what girls always does and boys just hate it. So at least when you are on a date try to control your emotions and stop cribbing. If you are not in a good mood, it's better to cancel the date instead of spending hours in boring the guy.
• If you are planning to sound smart by discussing politics and social issues, drop your plan. It's your date so keep it light and interesting.
• Don't just start with the marriage plans you and your parents have. It's a big turn off for a boy. Marriage is not an interesting topic for a guy, not at least on his first date.
• It generally happens you speak your mind, when you are dieting and avoid calories, generally you utter, "I hate chocolates, they are fattening", it maybe good for your health and body, but definitely not a good thing to say on your first date. You never know may be he is planning to gift you a chocolate box.
• Don't just hurt their ego, guys are very particular about it. Just appreciate their gestures.
Make your date memorable and give a reason to your man to propose you for an official date next time.

Things not to say on a date.

Monday, 9 July 2012

Keep Away from Man Domination in your Relationship

Keep Away from Man Domination in your Relationship ---Having a domination partner can be really difficult to deal with. For few women, loving a dominant man is great for first few weeks or months of a relationship mainly because they feel the dominating nature shows the care and possessiveness towards them. But with time, this dominant nature can become a problem in your relationship. How? You are completely under his control and lose yourself to him. However, you can avoid getting dominated by your man by preventing him from taking such strong measures to control you.

Keep Away from Man Domination in your RelationshipHere are some tips to Keep Away from Man Domination in your Relationship
  • Don't give him so much right to control you in everything. If you rely on him and ask him for simple and small things, he will start taking you for granted and control you with his dominant nature.
  • You have to be strong with what you say and want. Suppressing your thoughts, ideas and wishes against his dominating nature can make your man become more dominant.
  • Don't lose yourself. If you get under under his control completely, you end up getting dominated by your man. To avoid being dominated by him, have a strong and confident attitude.
  • Avoid falling too much for him. If you want to avoid getting dominated by your man, don't show him that you want him. Falling for him can make him over-confident and take you for granted.
  • If you think you are right in an argument then don't bend down just to end the argument. You have to be dominant too!
  • Make him realize his mistake after sometime. Doing this immediately after an argument can spoil the relationship. Sometimes getting dominated by your man can make you happy. But don't let it become a daily affair.
Try these ways to Keep Away from Man Domination in your Relationship. A domination partner can make it difficult to survive the relationship and also makes you weak emotionally.

Keep Away from Man Domination in your Relationship

Some Resolutions for your Relationship in 2012

Some Resolutions for your Relationship in 2012Some Resolutions for your Relationship in 2012 ---Almost everyone I know makes goals or intentions related to their business, and many people make resolutions related to health and fitness. But how many of you make resolutions for your relationships?

Relationships are arguably the most important aspect of a person’s life. Even if you’re not currently in a romantic relationship, you have relationships with friends, family (if you’re lucky) and co-workers or colleagues. You can’t live in the world without having relationships, and relationships take work. Just like your business or your health, relationships thrive when you put your positive attention and energy into them.

Here are Some Resolutions for your Relationship in 2012

Resolve to treat yourself better this year
Whether that means putting healthy food in your body, getting more sleep or being more compassionate with yourself for your perceived shortcomings. Start the new year by treating yourself as you’d like others to treat you and watch how your relationships change. 25 Simple Self-Care Habits For A Happier Love Life

Resolve to decide which of your relationships are most important to you
Try this: take a piece of paper and a draw as large of a circle as will fit on the page. Inside the circle, draw two concentric, smaller circles (like a bulls-eye). The smallest circle in the center represents your "A" relationships: those which nurture you, make you feel better about yourself and support you. The second circle represents your "B" relationships. These relationships are good, but not as important as the inner circle. Last, the outer ring represents your "C" relationships. These are people you can’t or don’t want to cut contact with, but they’re not supportive relationships (toxic relatives fall in this category).

Resolve to spend quality time with the people you’ve decided are most important to you
Talk with each of the people in your "A" circle and together decide how you want to nurture your relationship with each other. This requires a commitment on your part. It requires a resolution to stay focused on the relationships that nurture you. Are you willing to make that resolution?

Resolve to say NO to demands on your time from people who don’t support you
This is a little more difficult than spending time with people you love who support you. This resolution may mean that you limit contact with a toxic parent or sibling. It may mean that you finally end the romantic relationship that’s not moving in the direction you desire. Are you willing to make that resolution?

For romantic relationships, resolve to hug your partner every day for at least 20 seconds
That’s about how long it takes for oxytocin to start flowing through your system, making you feel closer to your partner. Oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle hormone", works to make you feel better about people you...yup... cuddle with. Especially when you’ve been with someone for a long time, cuddling can fall to the bottom of the priority list.

Romantic relationships need more than just cuddle time
One of the pitfalls of long term relationships is that the sizzle starts to fizzle. While oxytocin will help you feel more loving toward your partner, it won’t keep eroticism alive. For that, you need to resolve to get your sexy on. I’ve written volumes on different ways to bring the sexy back into your long term relationship, and you can find them on my blog here. If you’re short for time or can't tear yourself away from this page, my first tip is to initiate sex every single day for seven days. Yes, that's right. I said have sex for seven days in a row with your partner. You'll be amazed what happens when you do. Hugs Not Sex Will Save Your Relationship

Lastly, resolve to be kind to strangers
Technically, according to most common understandings of relationships, you’re not in a relationship with a stranger. Yet, this resolution will create a more powerful impact than you might imagine because the truth is that we are all in relationships with ourselves, our loved ones, those we consider enemies and with people we don’t know. Kindness toward strangers (and animals) is considered to be one of the measures of a great soul. If you want a truly amazing 2012, resolve to be kind to strangers.

Some Resolutions for your Relationship in 2012

Bad Guys For Your Relationship

Bad Guys For Your Relationship ---When I look back at all the relationships that didn’t work out (that I so wanted to at the time), I realize that in every case, there were early warning signs that each guy gave me that could have given me some idea of the heartbreak I was about to experience if I had only been aware of what to look for. To spare you from what happened to me, to give you the inside scoop on what you can be on the lookout for, here’s my list of the warning signs that clearly let you know that this is a guy to avoid if it's a real relationship you're looking for.

Bad Guys For Your RelationshipHe doesn’t call you when he says he’s going to
Granted, I know that sometimes life can get it the way, and if he’s working late on that big project with the looming deadline it’s possible that time might get away from him once in a while. But if this happens more than once or twice, it’s a sure sign that you’re just not a priority for him right now. If a guy is really interested in starting (or continuing) a real relationship with you, you will be on his mind, and he won’t forget to call.

He’s often late and doesn’t call to let you know
I know there are lots of reasons people can run late that are beyond their control (traffic jam, car problems, being stuck at the office), but a quick call from his cell phone will put your mind at ease, and let you know that you have a few more minutes to try on that one other outfit you were still considering. The point here is about being respectful of your time – we can forgive lateness, even chronic lateness (some people just aren’t good at judging how much time something will take), but not calling to let you know he’ll be a little late? That’s inexcusable and a sure sign that he’s not too concerned about you.

He doesn’t show up at all (and doesn’t call) when you have plans to see him
OK ladies, unless he was (verifiably) unconscious in a hospital somewhere, getting stood up is a “one strike and you’re out” offense. There is absolutely no good reason for this (except the one above), and if you stay with him after a maneuver like that, you’ll be in for a very bumpy emotional ride that’s almost guaranteed to end badly. Cell phone reception is excellent these days (unless he’s a lumberjack working in the great North Woods), so this one is unforgiveable.

He has rules about how often he can see you
It’s one thing to have the boys’ “Wednesday Poker Night”, or something along those lines, but if he’s only willing to get together say, every other weekend (with the exception being a child custody situation), then that’s a sure sign he’s keeping his options open and still scouring the market for something better (at least in his mind – he just doesn’t realize that you’re the best thing going!).

Bad Guys For Your Relationship

Some Reasons to Know Why Women Commit to Older Men

Some Reasons to Know Why Women Commit to Older Men ---Many women love to date older men and the craze to date a married/divorced old man is a dream or fantasy for them. Why women prefer dating older men? There are several reasons behind loving an old married or divorced man. Take a look.


These are Some Reasons to Know Why Women Commit to Older Men

Some Reasons to Know Why Women Commit to Older MenMature
Older men are matured and won't commit silly mistakes like young boys. This is one of the most common reasons behind women dating an older man. Older men are matured, understands the situation, knows how to handle stress and relationship and most importantly, they are stable.

Confidence
Many women commit to older men because they feel old men are confident and knows what he wants in life. They are sensitive like a woman desires and the confidence to deal with situations make a woman love an older guy who can support and help find solutions.

Experience
This is another common reason behind women who date older men. Older men are experienced both physically and mentally. This is why they have better understanding levels and knows how to tackle a woman. They are experienced in dealing with women, their attitudes and expectations. This is why women love to date older men and wishes to see a future with them!

Settled
To enjoy the life with luxury and leisure, women feel older men are well settled in their life and can fulfill all she desires. He will understand what his woman wants or expects from him.

Strong physical love
Older men are experienced and can make love in a better way. Woman commit to older men to enjoy lovemaking session to the fullest like men. Unexperienced young guys can't satisfy them this is why women love to date older men who knows how to keep them satisfied and happy.

These are common reasons to know why women commit to older men.

Some Reasons to Know Why Women Commit to Older Men

Tuesday, 3 July 2012

some people so nice in pakistan see love of this woman




young lady doctor hartal ki waja say ik foji doctor bachaye ka alaj kar rhahe ha

some people so nice in pakistan see love of this woman

Isobel Cohen sits Cambridge final exams 28 HOURS after giving birth to first child – and gets a First!


London: A student has graduated from Cambridge University with first class honours after sitting in her final exams only 28 hours after giving birth to a baby.
Isobel Cohen sits cambridge final exams 28 HOURS after giving birth to first child and gets a first

The 33-year-old, Isobel Cohen, had to leave the newborn in intensive care while she sat the practical criticism paper at the city’s Addenbrooke’s Hospital maternity ward – on painkillers and still attached to a catheter after 18 hours in labour.
She then completed her Shakespeare and the Greek tragedies exam the next day in the hospital.
“Ms Cohen, a former dancer from Cambridge, turned down the opportunity to study at the university when she finished her A-levels to pursue a career on the stage,” metro.co.uk reports.
Isobel Cohen sits cambridge final exams 28 HOURS after giving birth to first child and gets a first 2
But she later took up a place to study English at Lucy Cavendish College and completed her studies despite falling pregnant in her final year.
She admitted that giving birth and sitting her finals within a couple of days was ‘slightly insane’, but added: ‘At least I was allowed to wear my dressing gown.’



Isobel Cohen sits Cambridge final exams 28 HOURS after giving birth to first child – and gets a First!

lovely picture



lovely picture

Saturday, 30 June 2012

If a woman says about love


If a woman says about love, it may not even be an expression of love..!! ;)

If a woman says about love

I want to live in your eyes not as a dream but as a sight,


I want to live in your eyes not as a dream but as a sight,

I want to live in your mind not as an idea but as a memory,


I want to live in your heart not as blood but as a beat,

I want to live in your body not as a soul but as a feeling,

I want to live in your life not as a friend but as a reason of living ..♥

I want to live in your eyes not as a dream but as a sight,

Friday, 29 June 2012

meri maa - taare zameen par gr888 an heart touching song of billion people i love u maa


meri maa - taare zameen par gr888 an heart touching song of billion people i love u maa
kisi ne 'Maa' se swaal kya k agr ap k qadmo se jannat ly li jay or ap se kaha jay k kuch or mang lo to ap kuda se kya mango gi tu 'Maa' na bohat acha jawab diya k 'Me' apni auwlad ka naseeb apne hath se likhne ka haq mangun gi kyn k unki khushi k agy mere lyi hr jannat choti ha
                                                   Maa Teri
                                           WFA KO SALAM

Lyricz
Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa


I never say that
But darkness frightens me mother
I never show that
But I listen to you mother
You know everything, isn't it mother
You know everything, my mother

Bheed Mein Yun Na Chodo Mujhe
Ghar Laut Ke Bhi Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Bhej Na Itna Door Mujkko Tu
Yaad Bhi Tujhko Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Kya Itna Bura Hoon Main Maa
Kya Itna Bura Meri Maa

Don't just leave me in this crowd
May not even find way back home
Send me not, this far
Might even not reach your dreams
Am I that bad ,my mother
Am that bad, my mother

Jab Bhi Kabhi Papa Mujhe
Jo Zor Se Jhoola Jhulate Hain Maa
Meri Nazar Dhoondhe Tujhe
Sochu Yahi Tu Aa Ke Thaamegi Maa

When ever Papa take me
And swing so hard, mother
My eyes search you
Think you'l come hold me close

Unse Main Yeh Kehta Nahin
Par Main Seham Jaata Hoon Maa
Chehre Pe Aana Deta Nahin
Dil Hi Dil Mein Ghabraata Hoon Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Hai Naa Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Maa

I never tell them
But I control myself mother
Never let come on my face
But my mind is afraid inside
You know everything,isn't it mother
You know everything, mother.

Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa

I never tell that
But darkness frightens me mother
I never show that
But I listen to you mother
You know everything, isn't it mother
You know everything, my mother

meri maa - taare zameen par gr888 an heart touching song of billion people i love u maa

Wednesday, 27 June 2012

u kiss my lips




u kiss my lips

5 Ways to Prevent Facebook Drama During a Breakup


The Internet has overhauled every aspect of modern life, from business to shopping to personal communication. It's also completely changed the way people, both young and old, create and dissolve intimate relationships.
When the latter occurs, and personal heartbreak goes public on Facebook, things can turn ugly in a hurry. Private grievances suddenly appear posted to public profiles, mutual online friends are abruptly excommunicated, and virtual salt is rubbed into very real wounds.
Distraught exes do and say things on Facebook that they'd never do or say face to face. They slander and lie, try to elicit jealousy, or seek revenge in a multitude of other ways. Passionate online poems turn into passive-aggressive pandering for the affection of mutual friends.

You might immediately change your relationship status to single and then begin posting photos of yourself laughing and holding hands with another person. Simultaneously, you're waiting and hoping for signs of loneliness on your ex's wall.
The ultimate results of these efforts often backfire. Worse, they simply spread ill will amongst a large social network and may create even more hard feelings, making it more difficult for everyone to move on with their lives.
In other words, Facebook can quickly turn private relationships into very public and very messy dramas that reflect poorly on both parties. But it doesn't have to end this way.
The following five tips, listed in no particular order, will offer a few pointers for avoiding humiliating drama on Facebook. With a little care and gentleness, you can gracefully end a high-tech relationship without you, or your ex-lover, stooping to online lows.

1: Take a Break from Facebook           


Some relationships end with barely a whimper, the expected result from a bond of two parties without a real dedication to commitment. Other relationships end in the kind of rending heartache that leaves deep emotional injuries that take years to heal.
If you find yourself drowning in tears during a breakup, and you feel a distinct inability to keep those emotions separate from your Facebook activities, it may be time for a break from this particular Web site. No, really -- take a break from your Facebook account.
Your friends will understand if you post a status update that indicates, "I'm taking a break from Facebook for a while. I will catch up with all of you very soon!"
You can also take things a step further and deactivate your account. And before you decry the end of your online social life, understand that deactivating your Facebook account isn't a permanent action. Facebook saves all of your profile and account information.
When you feel emotionally healed enough to interact in the massive public forum of Facebook again, you can simply reactivate your account and pick up where you left off, whether that day comes weeks or months later.
Finally, keep this last tip in mind. Breaking up is less about technology and more about you as a human being. It's important to watch your online etiquette of course, but taking stock of your emotional development is more important.
You may find that disengaging from mass interaction and spending time in one-on-one communication with valued friends is more rewarding and fulfilling. And fittingly, that's perhaps the best way to get the support you need to heal from your breakup and move on with your life.

2: Resist Publicizing Your Love Life


Facebook and other technologies make it easy to share every aspect of your life, instantly, with hundreds of other people. But just because you can doesn't mean you should. That's especially true when it comes to intimate relationships.
Whether you're in high school or in a retirement home, it's understandable that you're excited about a new squeeze. But just as you wouldn't stand up in front of the cafeteria to shout out your new relationship status, you may want to refrain from doing the same on Facebook.
Your closest friends already know when you're dating someone new. Likewise, they'll know when that relationship ends. They'll advertise both situations to a larger social group. In short, there's no need to trumpet new lovers online, or lash out with an immediate "Single" status change when that love dies in a huge ball of flames.
By simply hiding your relationship status as a permanent part of your profile, you can avoid many of the soap operas that flare up on Facebook. You'll also project a sense of maturity and self-confidence, in that you don't need a Facebook relationship status to signal your life's course.

3: The Only Standard is Common Sense


Facebook and other social networking tools are ubiquitous, but in the timeline of human evolution, they're brand-new. Although we all use these Web sites, none of us have developed a universal set of standards to guide us in online interaction. So when it comes to breaking up in the digital age, caution -- not spontaneity -- is advised.
With no clear guidelines or etiquette for Facebook breakups, there is only one way to be sure of avoiding drama. In short, be nice, and break up without posting it to your wall.
You can change your relationship status without making a public announcement. In your Privacy Settings, click the News Feed and Wall link. In the Highlights section, deselect Change Relationship Status. Now you're quietly again listed as single. You can also remove your relationship status from your profile completely.
Also, don't use Facebook as an open diary to show that you're hurting. Yes, you can use public posts on Facebook to elicit sympathy from your supporters and make your ex look like a thoughtless, inconsiderate jerk. But don't let the technology trump your emotional intelligence.
If your ex tries to draw your ire by posting negative comments about you, don't be sucked into a petty online battle. Refrain from posting retaliatory remarks and immediately unfriend him or her.
Start an all-out war on your ex through the power of online cluster bombs, however, and you can expect a counterattack. The resulting battles will make both of you appear immature and unstable. The online explosions might make for good theater, but both of you will pay for public attack and retribution.

4: Avoid Facebook Stalking


After you break up with someone you've spent a lot of time with, you can't help wondering what they're up to. Thanks to the power of Facebook, you may still be able to follow many of your ex-partner's activities.
If you're trying to remain friendly with each other, perhaps you'll remain friends on Facebook, meaning you'll be able to view revealing wall posts and comments. And even if you unfriend each other, you may very well be able to keep a running narrative of your ex's social life by reading comments and posts by your mutual friends.
Trying to piece together what your ex does each day and tracking his or her whereabouts is tantamount to online stalking. You might use these clues to construct plots of revenge or reconciliation. Or you might use the photos of your old boyfriend kissing his new squeeze to torture yourself emotionally.
Regardless of how you use the information you gather from your surveillance, understand that stalking is a compulsive, unsatisfying behavior. As a result, it may leave you feeling emptier than the breakup did or drive you to do things you wouldn't normally do.
Instead of stalking your ex, use your emotional energy to reconnect with other friends. Find new hobbies and interests. Tell a close friend that you're having a hard time not cruising your ex's wall and profile, and ask them for the emotional support you need to stop this self-flagellating behavior.

5: Use Blocking and Privacy Settings


A significant percentage of relationships end with bad blood and anger. To avoid drama on Facebook, instead of seeking vengeance, use your excess emotional energy to focus on your steadfast friends. In this regard, Facebook's privacy settings are extremely helpful.
You may want to begin by blocking your ex and some of your mutual friends. When you block another user, it means you'll remove that person from your list of friends and your profile becomes invisible to him or her. In turn, that person's profile will become invisible to you.
The simplest way to block someone is to visit his or her profile and click Report/Block This Person at the bottom of the page. When you're done, you're immune to pokes, messages, and wall posts from the blocked person. There's one exception -- if a mutual friend posts content to Facebook, you'll both be able to see each others' comments. In the event that you're trying to sever all contact with a person, that's a loophole worth remembering.
Facebook's customizable privacy settings also let you control the information you share with others. With just a few seconds of tweaking, you can create custom settings that let only your friends see your status, photos, tagged photos of you and relationship information.





5 Ways to Prevent Facebook Drama During a Breakup